If you're a father or mother-in-law who is just getting started (or is well into) holiday gift shopping, one of the people you may be missing is your daughter-in-law. After all, you've only known her for a few years (or perhaps more) and may not know what she wants most for Christmas, especially if she's a mom. And, chances are, your son or daughter isn't going to be very helpful in spilling the beans on what their significant other wants for a Christmas gift this year.
You don't want to screw this up if your daughter-in-law has given you grandchildren. You'll want to think carefully about what to get this saint of a woman, who is probably in desperate need of a spa day or some relaxing self-care gifts.
The good news is that we have your back. We've compiled a list of the best Christmas gifts for pregnant daughters-in-law. Not only will she be grateful because you knew exactly what she needed this year, but she may even be tempted to give you another grandchild if you keep up the good work!
Continue reading for a list of the best Christmas gift ideas for your daughter-in-law.
1. Cooks Her Favorite Meals
Being hangry used to be the worst thing in the world, but being prhangry (pregnant, angry, and hungry) is ten times worse. Don't change the entire holiday menu, but include a few items specifically for the expecting mother. Include dishes that satisfy her most intense pregnancy cravings while also taking her food aversions into account.
2. Gives Her A "Get Out Of Festivities Free" Card
It can be difficult to decline invitations from in-laws, and no one wants to be a sourpuss during such a joyous, festive time. The sweetest MILs not only understand and support her daughter-in-nausea law's and fatigue, but also believe that a Christmas movie marathon in bed is sometimes a better option than attending another holiday party.
3. Helps With Last-Minute Shopping & Gift Wrapping
Before a major holiday, every store is a madhouse, and no pregnant woman wants to fight her way through the crowds. MVMILs (Most Valuable Mother-In-Laws) can handle last-minute Thanksgiving and Christmas shopping, as well as wrapping those last-minute gifts.
4. Lets Her Sleep In
MILs who understand the importance of extra sleep are the best. It's all appreciated, whether it's watching the older kids so her pregnant daughter-in-law can sleep in or simply not scheduling any festive, holiday activities in the mornings.
5. Goes Shopping For Baby Supplies
Post-holiday sales are excellent places to buy baby clothes and supplies. A supportive mother-in-law will accompany her daughter-in-law on shopping trips or pick up items on her behalf — even better? She'll pay for it.
6. Babysits The Grandkids
There's no time for naps, morning sickness, or pampering when you're pregnant and already have children. That is, until Grandma visits for the holidays. Allow your daughter-in-law to rest and recuperate by taking her children off her hands for a while while you're all together.
7. Gifts Her Cozy Maternity Clothes
I've been warned several times not to buy too many maternity clothes because I won't be able to wear them for very long. My leggings are beginning to restrict my circulation, and my t-shirts are reaching the end of their stretch, but I feel guilty for "spending" money on maternity clothes. You don't have to spend a lot of money, but your daughter-in-law will appreciate something cute and festive that she can actually breathe in.
8. Masters Mocktails
During the holidays, fun cocktails are everywhere, and pregnant women can get some serious FOMO. It's depressing to see everyone else celebrating with bubbling champagne while you're stuck with a bottle of water. MILs, make your daughter-in-law feel included by serving delicious, seasonal, alcohol-free mocktails.
9. Keeps Tabs On Your Partner
Because the best MILs don't assume their children are always the perfect, blameless party in your relationship, they'll offer your partner some maternal advice when necessary. In other words, the best MILs don't mind telling their adult child that it's time to step up and take over holiday duties because their pregnant partner needs a nap.
10. Reserves Judgment
Even if she's the next Martha Stewart, a loving and supportive mother-in-law will hold her tongue if her pregnant daughter-in-holiday law's hosting skills aren't up to par. What about the other end of the spectrum? MILs who complain that you didn't follow their cookie recipe exactly.
11. Ultimate Treat Pack
This ultimate beauty set includes everything your daughter-in-law needs to style her hair in 10 minutes or less. Ceramic floating plates, shampoo, leave-in treatment, iron guard spray, and a paddle brush are included.
12. Cosabella PJ Set
Who doesn't appreciate a well-dressed pair of pajamas? This set is very feminine, but it also has a stylish take on classic men's pajamas. It's made of super-soft Pima cotton from Peru.
13. Women's Backpack
The new comfortable (yet durable) backpack, designed by women for women, is ideal for any daughter-in-law who spends the majority of her day on the go or simply commuting to and from work. A padded laptop pocket, hidden storage space for valuables, luggage pass-through, and a comfortable back pad designed specifically for a woman's body are all included.
14. Wool Beanie
This Boston-based knitwear company has just launched on Nordstrom, just in time for you to get a beanie for your daughter-in-law. Their products are of high quality, made from 100 percent Peruvian merino wool sourced sustainably.
15. Pod of Peas Cable Knit Maternity Sweater
It's difficult to find clothes to fit your ever-expanding baby bump! As a soon-to-be grandmother, the least you can do is help your daughter-in-law out by giving her this lovely maternity sweater to keep her warm all winter.
16. Philosophy Amazing Grace Gift Set
A classic gift set is hard to go wrong with, especially one that includes the self-care essentials: a spray fragrance, a roll-on fragrance, and a firming body lotion.
If your DIL has dry skin all fall and winter, Alchimie Forever Kantic Intensely Nourishing Cream deeply hydrates skin without clogging pores and leaves your face radiant the next morning. It's pricey, but if your daughter-in-law is a skincare connoisseur, she'll adore this moisturizer and rely on it for months (plus, a little goes a long way). It also smells fantastic.
18. 3xSpeed Bluetooth Turntable
This three-speed record player has built-in speakers that produce incredible sound, as well as a built-in headphone jack so she can listen privately for the daughter-in-law who is an old soul (in case your son-in-law is WFH).
19. Google Nest Audio
Meet Google's newest smart speaker, which would be an excellent addition to your daughter-in-home. law's It produces full, clear, and natural sound and is 75 percent louder and has 50 percent more bass than the original Google Home. It also has a very homey appearance—the soft curves were inspired by pillow fabric!
20. The Boulder Fleece
If your daughter-in-law enjoys winter sports, she'll love this high-quality fleece zipper-up. It has a fun, throwback look without the mothball odor and would be ideal for wearing under a ski jacket.
21. Spy Optic Women's Whistler Aviator Sunglasses
Just because it's winter doesn't mean your daughter-in-law won't want to wear these cool aviator sunglasses with UV protection and a chic rose gold finish.
22. Great Skin Everywhere Gift Set
If you know your daughter-in-law is into skin care, this is a thoughtful gift that will make her day. It contains three Clinique signature products in large and travel sizes.
23. Sherpa Reversible Quilt Jacket Cream/Black
If you have a stylish mother-in-law, you can be bold with your gift selection and choose stylish options you know she'll love, like this reversible sherpa jacket. It's made of faux fur and polyfill recycled from plastic bottles.
24. Sweet and Bubbly Spa Gift Set
Whether or not she has bored you with grandchildren, your daughter-in-law deserves some TLC, which this opulent set provides. It includes cupcake and donut-scented soap, bubble scoops, bath bombs, sugar scrub, and other goodies.
25. Drift & Dream Roll-On CBD
We love Sagely CBD products because we know they're made with high-quality, broad-spectrum CBD and infused with essential oils like geranium, lavender, rose, and Roman chamomile, all of which help to de-stress and relieve anxiety. Simply massage some of this into your temples and wrists to relieve stress.
26. Premium 15lb Weighted Blanket
Perhaps your daughter-in-law mentioned that she has been looking for a weighted blanket, or you are aware that she suffers from insomnia or anxiety (two conditions weighted blankets have been shown to help with). In any case, she'll appreciate this thoughtful and generous gift—a super plush, weighted blanket in one of nine colors.
27. BrüMate Champagne Flute Cooler
This triple-insulated container (with a very obvious champagne flute shape) would make an excellent gift for the daughter-in-law who enjoys a glass of (cold) bubbly. It has a drink-through, flip-top lid and Brümate's patented BevGuard technology, which keeps your DIL's drinks cold for hours without going flat.
28. Veuve Clicquot
She'll need some actual bubbly to go with her champagne flute cooler! Give her one of the world's most popular champagnes, which goes with almost everything from appetizers to desserts.
29. Lip Gloss Gift Set
This is an excellent gift for the daughter-in-law who is rarely seen without a shiny sheen of gloss on her lips. You get extra points if she appreciates vegan and organic beauty! These glosses are not only EWG-approved, but they are also enriched with organic ingredients.
30. Fayre Olive Wood Serving Boards
If your daughter-in-law loves to entertain, this gorgeous cutting board will become a favorite at her parties. It's hand carved from olive wood grain and comes in three sizes: small, medium, and large.
31. Babyganics Hero Essentials Gift
Have a germaphobe daughter-in-law (who can blame her these days)? She'll appreciate this gift of plant-based products that have been dermatologist and pediatrician tested.
32. Wine Lover Slippers
If your daughter-in-law enjoys wine, let her show it off with these slippers. They can also be used to politely remind your son or daughter that she is ready for a refill.
33. Bose QuietComfort Noise Canceling Earbuds
Is your son or daughter a snorer who keeps your daughter-in-law awake at night? Here's one method for keeping them in the same bed. These noise-canceling earbuds perform admirably. They're battery-powered, sweat- and weather-resistant, and have simple controls.
34. Yoda Best Daughter-in-Law Mug
If your daughter-in-law is a big Star Wars fan, this super funny and sweet mug that fits an 11-ounce cup is a must-have.
35. Women's Maternity Pants
If sweatpants are her go-to maternity uniform, she'll love this floral pair. They're made with a little bit of spandex., so they're perfectly stretchy.
36. Burt's Bees Mama Body Oil
Lightweight and soothing, this body oil is just the thing to give any mama-to-be. They'll be able to use it well into their postpartum era.
37. Maternity Robe
She can wear this robe to the hospital during her labor, but it's also a fun, comfortable garment for her to wear throughout her pregnancy.
38. New Mom Gift Basket
This thoughtful care package contains spa products, a candle, a water bottle, and other goodies, all packaged in the most beautiful box. It's already ready to give as a gift!
39. Labor and Delivery Socks
Whether she's going to the hospital or not, she'll love these cozy socks that say, "Sorry, I just can't today; I'm growing a tiny human."
40. Shower Steamers
These "shower steamers," infused with essential oils, will provide her with a luxurious, spa-like experience right at home. That's something any expecting mother would appreciate!
41. Bio-Oil Skincare Oil
See you later, stretch marks! This body oil has been clinically proven to help repair skin damage caused by pregnancy, which is likely why it's a best-seller on Amazon. "I love this product," says one customer. "After 7 months of daily use, my stretch marks are either invisible or significantly faded."
42. Pregnancy Tea Sampler
This sampler contains nine different organic teas, each of which is designed for a different stage of pregnancy. An infuser is also included.
43. Pregnancy Pillow Wedge
A pregnancy pillow, specifically a pillow "wedge," can help support her growing bump. Soft memory foam will keep her comfortable throughout the night.
44. Maternity Belt
This best-selling belt will support her growing belly while gently compressing it. She'll be grateful when she's in her third trimester.
45. 'Growing You' Keepsake Pregnancy Journal
She'll want to remember this time, no matter how difficult it was at times. With this sweet, beautifully designed journal, you can give her the tools she needs to do just that.
46. 'The Feel-Good Pregnancy Cookbook'
With over 100 recipes, there's bound to be something she'll enjoy in this cookbook—even if her own favorite dishes have recently turned her off. There are even nausea-relieving meals included.
47. The book - 'Around the World in 80 Purees'
New moms, too, deserve to be loved! This "global baby food" cookbook is a fun option for new mothers (or who are almost at their due date).
48. 'Eating for Two' Fork
This fork has the words "Eating for Two" engraved on it, and it would be even more special paired with some of her favorite snacks.
